It was a sleepover at my best friend's place when we were about 7 or 8. The first show & tell led to the first touch and feel on the very same night. No need to thank me, I've been dying to get this off my chest, one way or another. So go ahead and ask anything, I've mulled this over for so long now that I can't think of a question that I don't have a serious answer for.ĮDIT: Thanks for all the replies/questions/comments, folks! I am now logging off for the day, but I will come back and answer more tomorrow if anyone still has anything to add. You hear a lot (especially lately) about when sick & twisted adults fuck kids and the consequences of that, but what about when it's just the kids fucking each other? There's almost no mention anywhere about this (I looked), and I know some of you are bound to be curious about it like I am. It might seem all made up because young boys having sex with each other isn't something that's often discussed seriously (if at all), but if we have a serious discussion here then I think there's a lot we could all learn from each other. (Especially after all those stupid 'I fucked my uncle when I was 15' posts, which were clearly pathetic trolls). I know this is a strange and touchy subject, and no doubt some people will think it's all bullshit. That story is about how some curious young boys started with "Show me yours and I'll show you mine" one night while still very young, and then eventually took things far, far beyond that. The short version is that I have this very strange, secret history I've been living with, and the story is just begging to be told. But I'm ready now, so give me your best or give me your worst, be as kind or as hateful as you want, I really don't care. Even though the anonimity of posting here should make admitting all this easy, it has still taken me a while to muster up the guts to do this. I've lurked this fantastic subreddit since day one, and I've been contemplating doing a thread like this since back then. OK then reddit, no more stalling, let's do this. If some more quality questions come up after that, I will be back tomorrow around the same time (or otherwise ASAP) to answer those. I will be answering questions today for several hours right after posting, but after that I have to log out. Also if I seem to be taking forever on a good question, be patient because I am pensive and probably just working on a wall of text. I don't know if this will happen, but if this thread becomes really busy I might not get around to every last question. Now that you have been advised, don't bitch if something farther down the page puts unwanted pictures in your head. If anyone wants the nitty gritty details, I will gladly be providing those. If you're not OK with that, don't read those parts - they should be obvious. No adults, no illegal age gaps.ĭepending on the questions I get, the content of this thread might go X-rated pretty fast, and I'm totally OK with that. Though I'm still officially in the closet about it, I am Bisexual.Įvery sexual activity I ever participated in was 100% consensual and legal (unless some real backward laws I don't know about are still on the books). Sorry to crush the lesbian jailbait fantasy. I’m just so confused and feel alone due to the fact that my friends know me as bi and I can’t even talk to my parents.I'm a guy, 23 years old now. If I did come out to them, my struggle labelling myself (although I’m 100% sure I’m not straight) would just fuel this idea! Much as I want to, I can’t come out to my parents as they aren’t really comfortable with LGBTQ+ and say that teenagers don’t know their sexuality, just that it’s a phase and they will grow out of it. In casual conversation I talk about myself as gay (more meaning wlw than “not bi”) as I feel the label is more appropriate but whenever I get reminded that I’m “bi” it just reminds me of the fact that I’m supposed to like men, when in reality I don’t really.
I don’t seem to find men attractive (apart from one or two celebrities) and can only see my future with a woman.Īt 13 I came out to a few friends as bi (they were all accepting) but now I regret that as I just feel so uncomfortable with that label. But now, the label just doesn’t feel right anymore. I knew, after a while, that some bisexuals have a preference and that mine were girls. I remember questioning when I was around 11 and, after a lot of confusion settled on labelling myself as bisexual. My parents (more about them later) don’t believe that children should be taught about LGBTQ+ so never really told me that I could like the same gender, just that I would find a man. I’m a 14 year old girl and, looking back I’ve always found girls so pretty.
#Am i gay or bi reddit how to#
I was just wondering how to determine whether you are gay or bi and whether anyone has had a similar struggle with their sexuality?